If you have lost a loved one, it is painful and heart breaking. The thing is though, you can, and you will heal as time goes on. You can connect with the spirit of your loved one with a mediumship reading.
Mediums are able to connect with the spirit world and give messages to you or from your lost loved one so that you can have closure in your life.
If you are thinking of getting a mediumship reading, here are some good tips to follow:
- Be Understanding and Be Patient
A medium is also called a spiritual medium because they are able to speak to the spirit world. They are able to connect to the energies of those that have died.
A spirit has a higher frequency that you have and so mediums are able to raise their vibrational frequency to match that of the spirit. When this happens, the medium is able to communicate with the spirit and get messages.
Real mediums can talk to both you and the spirit world, but you need to be patient when the medium is doing a reading.
It might seem like it is taking a long time, but they are trying to reach your loved one without scaring them or without overloading their energies. If a spirit leaves, you will not get the message that you need. Be patient and wait.
- Have an Open Mind
Mediums have energies that come in different ways. Even if you wanted to talk to your relative, you have to know that your relative has to agree to speak to you.
This can be upsetting sometimes when you want to talk to that person and someone else shows up, but the medium can only do what they can do.
Even if they have strong fits, they are still humans and they will try their best to reach your loved ones.
They might give you names of someone that doesn’t make any sense to you, but you need to be patient and open minded and let the spirit speak the way that they want to.
Do not judge your medium or get upset but wait to see what the spirit comes and what information they have to give you.
Sometimes it helps to take notes during the reading so that if you think of something you can go back later and look.
- Don’t Distract Them
When a medium is trying to reach the spirit world, they need to concentrate on what they are doing. They need to use all of their senses and if you interrupt them, it makes it harder.
You can ask anything you want but when the medium is listening, you need to be quiet and wait. If you want them to be able to communicate with the spirit world, sometimes they have to give their full attention to this.
Some mediums will get information easy while others take time. They have to figure things out sometimes like a puzzle so that they know what to tell you.
A medium will give you a chance to ask questions and then tell you when you should speak.
- Spirts Can’t Always Be Reached
Sometimes a medium will not be able to reach your spirit being that you want to connect with. This happens for different reasons.
Sometimes when someone dies, they aren’t strong enough yet to speak to a medium. If there is an off day, the medium might not have the energy to be able to make contact to your loved one. Remember, they are just humans.
Don’t be upset with your medium or let it frustrate you but just be positive and let them try again another time.
Even though you are not a medium, it will never hurt for you to talk to your spirit because they might hear you even if you cannot hear them.
Thank the spirit for coming and tell them that you are thinking of them. Let them know that you love them and ask them to give you a sign such as play your favorite song or show you your favorite animal.
You will be surprised at how often this can happen. If you need closure after your loved one dies, talk to a psychic medium, and see if they can help you to connect to your lost loved one from the other side.